I went the the funeral of a friends father today. It was a beautiful service followed by dinner at one of his favorite restaurants. His daughter-in law, my friend, spoke, some of his family spoke. Some of the things that were read are pinned on my “Pops” pinterest board. It was sad. But it was nice to see so many family and friends fondly remembering their loved one. Made everything that will happen soon very real. Very palpable. ALS sucks by the way. Thought? Comment? Question? Comment on the blog.
We are getting closer to the end. His breathing has definitely changed, he’s got his first bed sore. We’re estimating about 4 more weeks. Is that not the most insane thing to type. It’s probable my dad will pass by Easter. I have been trying to wrap my head around that and figure out what we need to do when it happens. I’ve “assisted” with two other funerals, my aunts and step grandfather, but wasn’t as involved, obviously, as I am now. You hear all the horror stories from crematories and funeral homes. I watched some videos from Ask A Mortician on YouTube. VERY helpful. If your family member wants a direct cremation, this video is extremely helpful in understanding what to expect when speaking with funeral homes and what to look out for. ALS sucks by the way. Thought? Comment? Question? Comment on the blog.